“When Love And Hostility Are Confused” by Tami Boehle-Satterfield

no love
Consider.

1. Love is healing energy.
2. Healing is natural and an overwhelming biological drive outside of judgement designed to benefit evolution.
3. Therefore, love is instinctual and, by its very nature, reciprocal. Anything less is a form of hostility. To deny one’s self access to the experience of love is a form of self-hostility that compromises the system from reciprocity.
4. Hostility is not love.
5. Anything less than love is not love.

For example: X exploits Y for X’s self-preservation.

X’s Brain Cognition: “If you loved me, you will.”

Y’s Brain Cognition: “She will abandon me if I don’t.”

Y’s All Knowing Mind: Unconsciously initiates action in favor of self-preservation over evolution. This “stress state” is designed as a temporary state.

Y’s Body: Deprived of healing energy, the body stores the memory of hostility and struggles for equilibrium. Resources are limited as some are directed to “contain” hostility and can not attend fully to evolution. When this perpetuates, it may be considered a state of self-hostility.

Y’s Brain Cognition: Y shall believe, in an effort of self-preservation and to maintain cultural integrity for security within Y’s tribe, that “She loved me the best she could.” That this is the best that could be done. Y comes to believe that Y deserves less than love, a belief based in lacking and not in abundance; a hostile belief. With the installation of a hostile belief, thoughts, emotions and actions are guided without love and love can not be experienced.

Outcome for Y: The mind and body working without love, for only self-preservation instead of evolution, results in a compromised system. Without intervention, mind and body will become depleted leaving the mind and then the body vulnerable to sickness and disease.

Outcome for X: The mind and body working without love, for only self-preservation instead of evolution, results in a compromised system. Without intervention, mind and body will become depleted leaving the mind and then the body vulnerable to sickness and disease.

NO LOVE HERE.

10 March 2014

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